#this man is an eighth house stellium in virgo

[hwnglx]

dating jungkook - q&a

physical ideal type, how to catch his attention, as a boyfriend, love languages (give and receive), favorite type of dates, jealousy, etc.

based on tarot. i do not know these idols personally. energies are always changing. what i say is NOT straight fact. pls take it with a grain of salt!

what physical traits in a person is jungkook most attracted to?

well-balanced features

humble, effortless and natural beauty (i keep seeing bare faces in my mind's eye)

sophisticated, well-groomed and clean

takes good care of their appearance

curves! (especially the top area)

graceful movement

soft and pretty hands

elegance

❥ more specific traits could include:

red lips

baby face

sharp face

black hair

light hair

long hair

straight hair

white clothing

beauty marks

i keep seeing iu in my mind's eye, dressed in this long and beautiful white dress.

she sums up his physical ideal type in many ways. i can see him feeling drawn to people who have this fairy-like aesthetic.

however! i do have to say, i can see him feeling attracted to several types of looks. he's not as specific in his preferences as others; more open-minded in that regard.

for example, i absolutely see him liking girls whose aesthetics are on the “baddie” side as well. someone with tattoos or piercings, and more casual but edgy clothing. he for sure really likes it when someone just has a lot of sex-appeal.

one thing i keep getting though, is that he likes people who are well-put together and look after themselves. he definitely likes people who put effort into maintaining their looks, but don't look like they try too hard; let's say someone who works out regulary, eats healthy, takes care of their skin. things like that.

he seems like the type to like it when his partner can do both; glamorous and fancy on special occasions (like going to the red carpet together all dolled and dressed up), and more casual, laidback and natural when alone with him.

❥ possible rising signs he could feel attracted to:

capricorn

scorpio

libra

leo

what does it take to catch jungkook's attention?

he finds it intriguing when a person is intelligent, bold and wellspoken. lets say both of you are in a group of people; if all of you get into a discussion, and you're the one standing out by the way you express yourself in an eloquent, impactful and strong manner, that can very much intrigue him. people whose words have depth; a voice that doesn't raise often but once it does, it makes everyone in the room shut up and listen.

he feels drawn to individuals who are independent, knowledgeable, fair-minded and self-sufficient. i also keep hearing “frank” .. someone who's direct and honest with him. jungkook likes it when people aren't too shy or afraid to talk back at him, and humble him. he definitely enjoys a challenge and feeling like he needs to prove himself to someone first.

he also likes it when someone doesn't put him on a pedestal due to his status, and doesn't approach him with starstruck eyes, and unrealistic expectations he can't reach. he likes it when a person isn't intimidated or burdened by his presence, and is capable of simply putting his fame to the side; just see him as a human being.

how does jungkook act when someone catches his attention?

basically, man loses all focus. once someone actually catches his eye, that person can quickly become all he sees. like tunnel vision, forget about everything and everyone else, you're all i see. he can lose his inner composure, and get kinda obsessive of the thought of them. it's likely he'll struggle looking away and find himself naturally observing them a lot.

i'm in his energy, and i keep feeling like.. “oh wow, i need to be with them and approach them before anyone else can”

i can feel his possessive vein coming out quite fast, and him being worried the person might possibly be snatched away by someone else. so, it's likely for him to act quickly.

if there's an opportunity for him to get to them, he will for sure take it. though i have to say, he's definitely the self-conscious type to overanalyse things; like the way they reacted, and worry about the things he said in the heat of the moment.

how does jungkook act in the beginning of a relationship?

okay, this went deeper than i expected. i will try to keep it as understandable as i can.

as i mentioned before, and i keep getting this (the four of cups comes up without fail), this man can feel empty, lacking and apathetic a lot.. big part of the reason as to why he can get so attached to his s/o, is because he naturally puts the entirety of himself into his romantic partners.

jungkook's lovers can quickly become his safe space; his main source of comfort. the first place he seeks if he needs some peace. once he feels like he finally (this can take a while!) found a person he can comfortably pour his heart and soul out to, he can have the tendency to overdo it a little.

i just see him latching onto the person he's with, in hopes of them being able to fill this emotional void he can experience when on his own. he naturally expects a lot from them for this reason. like “i need you to fill the things i lack.”

i keep seeing an image of a diamond in my hand. imagine you found this diamond made out glass. you feel like it's so precious, because it gives you everything you asked for in life. it makes things seem brighter, more beautiful, enriches you. you will hold onto it for dear life, not ever letting it go anywhere else, out of fear of it slipping out of your grip; but this could potentially lead to the diamond breaking in your hands, since you just can't expect glass to be as hard as steel.

this reflects his dynamic with his lovers quite well; he can often make his partners the centers of his life, “dump” a lot of his expectations on to them, be immensely and obsessively protective over them out of fear of them being damaged, or taken away from him. however, this has the potential to put a lot of weight on their shoulders, which some people might have problems dealing with.

he can be contradictory in a sense, because make no mistake; jungkook will want to do all the work for you in a physical realm. it's almost like he overcompensates in the areas he's comfortable with. (especially acts of service)

he's the type to be like “don't work, i will work, you shouldn't tire yourself out. don't carry that upstairs, i will do it for you. are you exhausted? is one pillow not enough? don't worry, i will buy you two.” i can sense this genuine desire to make his lovers feel good in their relationship, and take care of them.

but, he's this case of.. you can't love anyone else in a healthy manner, if you don't learn to love yourself first.

he wants to give his lovers everything they deserve, and to an extent he does; but he still has his emotionally needy tendencies, since a lot of his inner issues remain unresolved. this as a result, can lead to jk naturally putting a lot of the relationship on his partner's back, without even intending to.

what is jungkook's love language? how does he like to receive and give?

❥ give:

acts of service

whatever he can get done for you, he will. the type to try and cook your favourite meal because you said you craved it the other day, even if he's not the best chef in his eyes. he'd probably end up embarrassed, overanalyze your reaction and tell you he's sorry about the dish being so bad. the type to love helping you out with anything; e.g. give him the task of building a new shelf you bought, he will do it and put the entirety of his effort in. i can also see him loving to drive you around, or carry your heavy shopping bags.

physical touch

he'll love to just have you close to him. it's almost like everything's okay once you're near him and he can physically feel you with him. a lot of possessive hand holding, sneaky and subtle but electrifying touches. the type to beg for a kiss over and over because he can't get enough, even if you get annoyed at some point; that'd just rile him up even more. (he'd grin all smug and amused) also random insight i got, but he seems like the type to love carrying his partners around. whether that's in a playful manner, or during e.g. the foreplay of more intimate intercourses. (like carrying you upstairs)

quality time/physical intercourse

he has a very powerful drive, and is the type to bond and connect a lot over physical intercourse. confident, incredibly sensual, intense and passionate lover in bed. i do see him letting off steam this way as well.

❥ receive:

words of affirmation

i got the empress card, which is the mother figure.

jk likes receiving comfort, support and reassurance from his lovers. he wants them to give him this feeling of “this person accepts, and loves me for everything i am.”

think of a mothers love; it's pure, unconditional and forgiving.

he's someone who desires an intuitive, and emotionally intelligent person who can give him both; tough, and soft love.

someone who's tough and honest when he needs a reality check or fist on the table, as well as a sweet nurturer, who's able to attune themselves to him emotionally, and reassure him in a gently supportive manner when he's in need of it.

he just wants someone he can have that subconscious connection and natural understanding with; a person who can almost read his mind by just one look at his face.

what kind of dates does jungkook enjoy the most?

first of all, when it comes to dates; jk likes being the initiator. the one who plans it all and has the ideas. this seems to be another way in which he likes to flex and display his affection. planning romantic and beautiful dates. let me give you a few examples that popped into my head.

romantic dinner

high-end restaurant, roses, wine, live jazz music, candlelit, dim and warm lighting, kinda like the first scene in seven -> i can also see him liking to reserve the entire restaurant out in advance, so that you're the only people in there. or planning the dinner to be on a rooftop while the sun is setting. it just needs to feel intimate.. like there's no one, but the two of you.

night walks

i can see him loving to be in a calm and serene atmosphere with his partners. he's someone who would love sneaking out at night after a long stressful day, to unwind and comfortably walk along the hangkang together with his lover, and the beautiful night scenery surrounding them. just having deep conversations and enjoying each other's presence.

educating yourselves together

he'd love to learn something together. maybe take on a new hobby with his partner; like a cooking course, or learning a new language. engaging in some kind of sport, or gym dates.

one thing that keeps coming through, is him genuinely wanting to feel like they're a “normal” couple.

he's incredibly adamant on fiercely protecting his lover from all the negative attention or haters, and escaping crazy people who try to dig their nose into their business. but at the same time, he doesn't want the relationship or his partner to feel uncomfortable. he can often seek normalcy in his private life.

how does jungkook act when he's jealous?

cold. he distances himself. if not physically, emotionally. leaves you to figure out what's wrong on your own for a while. let's say jk caught you talking to some other guy across the room; he will hate the sight and it will trigger a switch in him.

he'll feel threatened by the guy. he just taps out of sweet and accommodating boyfriend mode, into his darker and resentful energy. jealousy is something which can trigger many of his inner fears and insecurities. he might silently take deep breaths to press down his frustration and try his best not to make it obvious in his facial expression, but his face can easily drop and grow increasingly serious.

i don't see him as the type to impulsively confront his partner or be very vocal about how he feels, but moreso internalize his negative emotions and try to process them by distracting himself with other things or withdrawing into his own space. a lot of that comes from him not wanting to explode in your face, honestly. you'll have to dig slowly and approach him in a very patient way for him to open up.

he will feel left alone, there's some sadness here. he'll feel wronged, and like his fears were validated. his judgement is likely to be very clouded in that moment; even if you want to explain it as a misunderstanding, it's likely he won't wanna hear any of it for a while. he might collect information on the guy you talked to though, like asking his friends who he is, etc.

[livelaughghoul]

Based on the charts you’ve seen so far of f1 drivers, who do you think is the most

-stubborn

-manipulative

-emotional

- fair

- clever

and who’se chart based surprised you the most ? <3

I LOVE THIS, not gonna lie this question literally made my day and it’s not even noon. I realize I’ve also looked at charts and haven’t posted them yet, so like this is kind of a fun little preview of some that are in the works!

Stubborn: Daniel Ricciardo! A Gemini and Capricorn stellium is so stubborn, like it’s actually mind blowing to me. I know this man is so dedicated when he sets his mind to something. I definitely think the stubbornness comes from the ego, like there’s always something to prove to someone and himself.

Manipulative: Lance Stroll or Jenson Button. I love them both, but holy shit the charts are outrageous. Jenson has a Virgo stellium, and his moon/venus sixth house is wildly manipulative in my opinion. Lance has a Scorpio stellium, and his Mars eighth house is so aggressive it gives me the ick.

Emotional: Lewis Hamilton or George Russell. The charts of these two are insane to me because it’s so much water and air, like holy shit. George and Lewis are both emotional in different ways, and I love them for it greatly.

Fair: Carlos Sainz Jr. I love the balance of his chart, it’s such a nice mix of everything that it just feels balanced and right.

Clever: Max Verstappen. Honestly this comes from the 12th house stellium. Usually an overwhelmed 12th house is a huge red flag, but I feel like he’s used this to his benefit and has taken advantage of it, also a fourth house Saturn? Literal chef kiss.

Surprised me the most: Sergio Perez. The amount of earth placement is wild to me, like holy shit. I know this man has got to have a coming energy to him, and I love that.

[seagull-astrology]

Parker has a Water Grand trine in his chart from Jupiter to Venus to the Moon.

George Parker was a British astrologer who published an ephemeris, including heliocentric positions with his partner, Dr. John Partridge.

from Parker’s Tutor²:   a Sun in Leo gives a large voice, broad face and a mark on the aspect.  An honourable character, faithful to his friend and just in his promises.  He takes pleasure in Warfare and propagates all matters and things tending thereto.

The top engraving is from Parker’s own frontispiece to his Ephemeris and a sample page of its layout.  Astrologer Ebenezer Sibley in his “The New and Complete Illustration of the Celestial Science of Astrology”  gives  05:13 a.m. with the Julian date of August 9, 1654 at 5:11 GMT at Shipston-on-Stour, England.    What is noticeable is Sibley is using a wheel for his chart and not the popular box.

Sibley’s version of Parker’s chart.

  Alan Leo in his Urania Magazine¹ uses August 9th too but  5:11 AM GMT. We are using Leo’s data because we think Leo is the better astrologer.  He also used the Placidus house system, while we  Morinus, nevertheless,  we are just a few minutes off his placements i.e.  Sun in Leo 26.16 vs  our 26.12, Saturn in Leo 29.34 vs. our 29.15 and Mercury in Virgo at 23.31 vs. our 23.30.

the Tutor:  Parker’s Mars in Leo is a person indifferent stature, well fed body but not grossly large. Light brown hair towards flaxen, oval visage and full eyes.  Fierce countenance, quick sight, active and valiant but a choleric personality.  Generous and free hearted delighting in all manner of argument and warlike exercise like shooting, riding and fencing.

                                    Parker a Locomotive?

With his water Grand Trine, Parker has several conjunctions, but no stelliums in his chart.  He has one major opposition, that from Jupiter to Saturn, so he cannot be a Splay, as that requires none and he has one too many conjunctions, with no associated oppositions, for a Splash.  Slowly we move into the idea that Parker is a locomotive with an open area in the South, suggesting despite his desire to be unobtrusive, he had a public personality because of his publications.

Parker has two squares to his trine, one from the Mars on the first house cusp to the Moon it’s essential ruler, tells that he was able to utilize his intuitive creativity to unleash his personal viewpoints.  The second, from Jupiter in exaltation in the eighth house, is to the eighth house ruler, Pluto, giving him depth to his expansive viewpoints — he did not let an idea just float away but wrote them down, and followed them through testing them by his keen eye of observation and industrious research.

the Tutor:  Parker’s Moon in Scorpio gives him a very fat and short neck, a broad face, black hair and ill proportions.  A dull constitution and one depraved of all principles having little esteem from his neighbors and fellow man.

With a strong first house,  and a Sun at 26.12 Leo conjunct the asteroid Daedalus, his ingenuity was hard to be denied and Saturn at 29.15 Leo conjunct the Fixed Star Regulus there was also his ambition.  He also has an conjunction of the asteroid Sphinx 16.39 Leo conjunct Mars in Leo 16.46 he put great effort into solving hard problems and Mercury at 23.30 in Virgo conjunct exactly with Pandora that showed how he loved to show his solutions off .

the Tutor, Parker’s  Saturn in Leo makes an “indifferently large stature with broad shoulders, big boned and well put together but not fleshy.  The hair is of a light brown, and he stoops when he walk.  He has rough mannerisms and tends towards revengeful yet would be thought by others to be the spirit of generosity and nobleness in all his actions.

None of that seems much of stretch, but Bacchus conjunct Uranus in Capricorn tells us that he may like to imbibe and enjoyed the pub house.  Venus in Cancer on the twelfth house suggests that he had a great love that encouraged him, but square Iris in the third, it is possible that this is an idealized love of his sister or sister in law.  That did seem to bring him pain as well, as Sphinx is opposite Eos 17 Aquarius and creates a point focus at his natal Moon 17.19 Scorpio

 the Tutor, Mercury in Virgo is a slender body, handsome man, but a muddy complection, long visage and dark brown hair.  A sharp wit and notable penetrating fancy attaining to diverse languages, arts or sciences by his own industry.

It is hard to know who this was or how this turned out,  but the Moon in Scorpio gives us a clue of a jealous nature and perhaps in truth suggests an unrequited love where because of circumstance he was force to remain just friends with her. Could this be Partridge’s wife, Dorothy? Or since it conjunct his Part of Fortune, could this be professional jealousy, that the quiet introverted resented his inability to to capitalize more fully on his talents, and so some one else did?  Dunno, but we do know that some type of jealousy, professional or personal colored his view.  As for who or which this was, that is a cipher, for true to his wishes  nothing besides his almanac is known.  He lived long and died in London in 1743.  As for his partner, Dr. Partridge, that’s another story.

from the Tutor, Parker’s Jupiter in Pisces, where it is exalted we find, “Here is a person of middle stature, the body gross, the complexion not clear, and skin dark complected with brown hair.  Temper and qualification is honest and just and he delights in good company and pleasant recreations with his fellows.  He loves mirth and musical instruments in the world and is fortunate upon water.”

Footnotes:

Leo, Alan, Urania Magazine, publisher Alan Leo, London. January 1800,

Parker, George, A Tutor to Astrology, Whereunto is added an ephemeris, 1704, London.

Chimeric George Parker George Parker was a British astrologer who published an ephemeris, including heliocentric positions with his partner, Dr.